January 26, 2011

New Year Expectations

*Some posts from January were not published. Here they are. Enjoy!*
Beginnings and endings all happen in January. I always begin the year with new ideas and agendas. It feels so comforting to have a whole year full of time ahead of me.

Well, it is almost the end of January ... this is when the wheels begin to fall off of many of my creative ideas for the new year. Reality sets in that good ideas actually have to be executed (I like that word, can we think of it in terms of kill?)

So, I begin a lot of things and end a lot of things in January. It is a very busy month for me.

Last year, I told all my kids I was going to do a Monday Mom Email every week and tell them inspiring and wise things that mothers should tell their children. The first one (I don't mean to brag) was amazing - really life changing. I am pretty sure they read it.
I was really into it. I planned to email the very next Monday but entropy happened and happened and happened. So about midyear, not to rush things, I sent one out again and told them the Mom Email was now bi-yearly. I also informed them that they might have to find ways to be wise and inspired on their own. Recently, I let them know that due to my schedule, I had restructured the Mondays Mom Email to an annual event and I couldn't give them an exact timing on it.

Yes, I totally believe in adjusting your expectations as the year rolls on ... and sooner if needed.

Comfort tip #1 : Relax, it's OK to restart, re-adjust, renew, let go, restart, rethink, re-evaluate, restart, or NOT. Take it day-by-day. You have over 300 restarts left. It is comforting to have a whole year ahead of you - enjoy.

January 25, 2011

New Year Weight Loss Idea

*Some posts from January were not published. Here they are. Enjoy!*

New Year weight loss idea and more ... I am so sick of reading and hearing about how to lose those last 10 - 20 pounds. You get a load of ideas in January on this subject. Everyone has actually enjoyed eating over the Holidays. So we tend to pack on a few extra pounds. I like to read all the suggestions, organize them all, make plans about them, and join all the websites. I usually begin to eat a lot of comfort food the third week in January BECAUSE ... I am so discouraged that joining websites, organizing, and planning does not burn enough calories to lose ONE darn pound.

Comfort Tip - For Weight Loss:

Get a Pedometer. Go today. I just got one.
Get the one that clips on your belt. The guy at the Big Five Sporting store told me that is more accurate than the pocket one.
I have to tell you . . . this so beats counting your steps on your own.
Get the one that counts how many calories you are burning, too. It is around $15 and so cool.
Warning: It may be discouraging as you will find out that is takes A LOT of steps to burn that Starbucks scone you had for breakfast.
But seriously, it just subliminally reminds you: if you can't burn it, don't eat it. You will have to store it somewhere.
At this moment I have walked 2,948 steps, .93 of a mile, and burned, yes, fired through, blasted through, 115 calories.

Gotta go, it's lunch time.

Hmmm, haven't burned off my breakfast yet.
Note to self: google; delicious, zero-calorie lunch options

January 24, 2011

Blame Your Mess on Physics

Definition: Entropy is the quantitative measure of disorder in a system.

I just love the word ENTROPHY. Say it with me . . . e-n-t-r-o-p-y.

It sounds comforting. Try this: say it with a little sing-song sound to it eennntttrrropppy.

Now try shouting it ENTROPYYYY - doesn't that feel good? Ok, again louder.

Now give me an entropy cheer. Give me an E, give me a N, give me a T, give me a R, give me O, give me a P, give me a Y, ENTROPY.

And now let's sing it in round to the tune of America the Beautiful. I'll start and when I point, you begin.
Ennnntttrooopppy, wonderful entropy. I am pointing; Ok, now la,la,la

So in the time you have read this . . . . your kitchen has become messier, your bedroom more untidy, your kids more unorganized AND it is not your fault. That is why ENTROPY is so freeing! Have you ever wondered why you have to clean up messes all day long and it seems like they are the same messes you just cleaned. Blame it on ENTROPY. Entropy is the natural law of physics that states when things are left to themselves they turn to chaos.

I was so delighted when I found out about entropy. I finally understood the universe code and physic law that had kept my life in disarray. I also understood why it was a uphill battle to keep things in order.

So, don't be so hard on yourself. When your life is a mess, take comfort in entropy and blame it on physics.

Here are some important tips to free yourself from the entropy cycle:

SORT: Before starting ... tell yourself sorting is good and that you love to sort. Get some new, colorful sorting containers. Put on your favorite sorting music. Buy a new sorting outfit.

THROW THINGS AWAY: Be ruthless. You do not want to end up on the Hoarding TV show.
So, if it is moldy, too small, stained, ripped, or ugly - throw it out. Or give it to a good friend who is a hoarder.

So, there you go.
That's it. That's all I've got.
Ennnttrrrooppyyy, la, la, la, Ennnttrrrooppyyy.

Oops, gotta go look for my cell phone and keys.

I just called to say, "I love you."

*We're working on switching our blog and some posts were not published. Here's some from January. Enjoy!*

Today I am wearing my father's sweater. I always reach for it when I have a big project with a deadline or just feeling a little down. It immediately brings me a sense of comfort. The feel and color of it reminds me of his warm smile and his blue eyes.

This rather ordinary sweater carries the soothing memories of a dad that gave me a foundation of comfort and security.
As I write this, I smile to remember all the times he called our office during my work day.

In fact, almost everyday someone would yell . . . "Your dad's on the line."

Hi Dad, how are you doing? He'd tell me he was fine and some other random tidbit like; he'd just emptied the dishwasher. Or some disgusting, important senior fact like: he'd had a bowel movement. Ok, Dad that's good. Well, gotta keep working, thanks for calling. And then he'd say, "I just called to say, I love you." Ok, Dad, I love you, too.

Often I was rushed, distracted, and uh,uh,ok, ya, Dad. See you soon.

He passed away a couple years ago. I miss his calls.

So today, I wear his sweater and wrap up in his words.

November 23, 2010

Thanks Giving

Wishing for you the joy of a Thankful Heart.
I am especially thankful for all of you who have ordered Comfort Silkie and shared the gift of comfort this past year. A zillion, trillion thanks to you.

Here is my recipe for joy while you are cooking up your Thanksgiving. Slow down, take a moment to breathe in the day. Take a comfort moment because the ingredients of life should be mixed slowly to produce the best finished product. Learn to have a thankful heart: by choosing to appreciate with gratefulness each tiny goodness life offers you.

This has been a difficult year for many people and yet we have so much to be thankful for. Last week I was feeling weary and decided to be thankful for the little things in my life. As Greg and I were leaving for a work day at Comfort Silkie I said, "I am at 52." Greg looks at me and says, "52 what?" I replied, "I have counted 52 things to be thankful for this morning." Pointing to my succulent garden in the front yard I announced, "53, and I have a car, so 54," and on it goes being thankful for things I take for granted everyday.

When our kids were little and they would start complaining I would begin the "Glad Game". It was a competition to think of as many things to be glad about as possible. A competition of any kind in a big family is a great distraction but the Glad Game always refocused our hearts.

As we gather with family and friends, think of the Mary Engelbreit poster that says "Let's put the fun back in dysfunction!" Smile, laugh, eat, and spend time enjoying the little differences and idiosyncrasies that make the people around you interesting. Appreciate the people in your life. The person sitting next to you may not be with you next year. Tell them today how thankful you are they are in your life.

I liked everything about last year's Thanksgiving blog so we thought we'd share it again this year.
I love Thanksgiving.
Gathering my family and enjoying a beautiful meal together makes me crazy grateful. I usually can’t contain myself so I break into song. My kids start to groan but they know I won’t stop until they join in. As a mom, I try to instill in them thankful hearts. Gratefulness is learned, not just in response to receiving, but a celebration of life. It is easy to become burdened with the day to day and forget to savor, yes savor, life’s moments.

Here are some of Troncone Thanksgiving traditions:
Five Kernels of Corn: When the table is set for the Thanksgiving meal every plate has 5 kernels of corn. They represent the Pilgrims struggle the year before the plenty and celebration of Thanksgiving. According to tradition, the Pilgrims suffered through a two year famine with a food ration of five kernels per day. When we compare the meal about to be served to the five kernels we can’t help but be thankful for our blessings.

Thankful Memories: Over the years I have had a Thanksgiving book that we pass and note our gratefulness. We pass the book, even writing for the small ones and letting them scribble their names. It is fun to look back and see, from old to young, the comments they made.


The Acorn Theory: An oak tree produces many acorns and those acorns produce more oak trees. At our family Thanksgiving it is tradition to pass the acorn and tell what each individual is thankful for. We also say one thing we are praying and hoping for this next year. Sharing each others joys and carrying each others burdens – it's what makes families strong.

For Stuffing Lovers: Yes, that is me. You must try this. When preparing your stuffing for the turkey: add chopped walnuts, apple bits, and golden raisins to the bread crumb recipe. Oh, so good!

Pumpkins Bars: I always make this yummy dessert during Thanksgiving. Chopped walnuts are a nice topping to the cream cheese frosting. You can double this recipe or make multiple batches and do up plates to bring to neighbors and friends. See recipe below.

Pumpkin Bar Recipe:
Oven 350
2 cups flour
2 tsp. baking powder
1/2 tsp. salt
2 tsp. cinnamon
1 tsp. baking soda
2 cups sugar
1 cup oil
4 eggs, beaten slightly
2 cups pumpkin

Combine in bowl in order given. Beat well. Spread on greased deep cookie sheet or 9x11 baking dish. Bake for 25 minutes. Cool. Frost with cream cheese frosting. Sprinkle with chopped walnuts.

Cream Cheese Frosting:
2 packages (3 oz.) cream cheese, softened
1 Tbsp. butter, softened
1 tsp. vanilla
1 3/4 cups powered sugar, sifted

Mix in bowl and beat with electric mixer. If necessary, add milk to make of spreading consistency.
Happy Thanksgiving,




Please share your thanksgiving traditions, favorite recipe or what you are thankful for with us....leave a comment below or on the Comfort Silkie facebook page. We look forward to hearing from you!

October 6, 2010

October: Comfort for Breast Cancer

Dear Friends,
We all know someone who has suffered with cancer. This disease has touched all of our lives in one way or another. It can be difficult to know how to help, express comfort, and bring hope.
That is why we are so proud of  Comfort Silkie's Hope line because it brings the powerful gift of comfort.

Comfort gifts bring a message of caring and empowers healing. 
Comfort has the power to restore the body, quiet the mind, and renew the soul
Comfort: to give strength, to quiet one’s fears, to give hope, to refresh, to calm

Cancer is not just a medical issue it is also a psychological and emotional journey
• 1 in 7 American women will be diagnosed with breast cancer in her lifetime
• Women perceive breast cancer as their greatest health threat

Comfort therapy products, skills, and techniques are essential for wellbeing.
Comfort is a life skill that reduces stress and enhances healing. Studies note that interactions among behavior, the brain, and the body’s immune system show that psychological comforts can enhance (or stressors can interfere) with working of the body’s organ systems, in particular the neuro-endocrine and immune systems.
• Cancer treatment is physically demanding. Comfort techniques can help reduce some of the side effects; nausea, muscle tension, loss of sleep.
• helps simulate the body’s natural ability to heal
• helps cope with the strong emotions of disease and recovery
• encourages participation in own recovery
• stimulates release of relaxation and feel good hormones

Comfort therapy products, skills, and techniques are essential for wellbeing
•The body stores and remembers comfort moments
• Provides therapeutic touch

The power of comfort can . . .
• reduces anxiety that diminishes the ability to cope and recovery
• can reduce stress behaviorism; fast heart rate, rapid shallow breathing, muscle tension
• strengthen the mind body connection
• reduce the addictive and cumulative negative effects of stress
• build up the immune system by reducing stress
• help the body reset and renew
• combat and reduce the side effects of the powerful chemo therapy medications
• rest the body after biomedical treatments
• aid in the conditioned relaxation response
• help the body to focus its energies toward healing

The power of Comfort is ...
• not just a cozy feeling; but mindful, powerful life skill
• safe and effective tool for relieving pain and anxiety
• powerful mind body therapy
• a key component in the healing process
• a nontoxic therapy
“Until they find a cure, we will comfort.”

Comfort Silkie Hope products are designed by Comfort Therapist, Jeanelle Troncone. She is known as the “mother of Comfort” and the innovator of the psychology and power of comfort. She has devoted the past two decades creating product and education that enhances wellbeing and supports psychoneuroimmunology. http://www.comfortsilkie.com/

Comfort Silkie - 800-266-2229
To see Comfort Silkie Hope products visit: http://www.comfortsilkie.com/hope



September 15, 2010

Times are a Changing

I am a comfort therapist and every one of the techniques I share I have needed in my own life.  I have a love/hate relationship with change. I just get nestled in, enjoying the season and then it is over before I am ready. I am excited about what is up ahead but, oh dear . . . wait a minute; life is rushing by too fast. Feel the same? Ok then, breathe with me ... deep comfort breathe in through the nose, breathe in slow and deep, breathing in the relaxation and comfort. Slowly release, tension and anxiety with outward breathe through the mouth, release tension in the shoulders, again slowly breathe in comfort and strength, and breathe out stress. Can you feel your body resetting and responding to the rhythm and gentle rocking of the breathing?

Ok, where were we?

Here on the Southern California coast we have had very cool summer weather. I counted about six really sunny days. Maybe I am low on vitamin D, the sunshine vitamin, because I am just not ready, mentally or emotionally, for summer to be over. How about you? More breathing? Wrap up in your Comfort Silkie blanket. I already grabbed mine. Take a comfort moment. Close your eyes and think of the your favorite  summer moment. Let it soak into your soul and fill you with thankfulness.

AND also . . .
I can't believe the kids are starting back to school. Bedtimes, lunches, school work … it can all be stressful but hang in there, simple comfort skills ease the way. Check back for the next blog for powerful comfort tips for school stress. Learn how to lower anxiety and boast brain power for preschool to college.

A few fun highlights:

Head to Toes Women's Expo in Del Mar – I spoke at their Baby Shower each day and shared Doula tips for pregnancy, labor, and new baby comforts. It was a girls' time out. Women just wanna have fun - even when they're very pregnant. Comfort Silkie donated Mama labor products and of course our original Security Blanket and Swaddler for baby comforts.

University of California, San Diego Medical Center – Comfort for Mama
Two special nights at UCSD were Meet the Midwives and Meet the Physicians. Comfort Silkie raffled Mama products and I shared about comfort techniques. What a great group of people and wonderful professionals.
The joy of being a Doula! Empowering woman with comfort and strength to birth their baby is a true joy. The miracle of birth has so many layers of wonderfulness. It is a joy to watch couples work together, dads-to-be who have developed into amazing coaches, and moms-to-be who have learned the wisdom to trust their bodies and their own strength. It is a privilege to teach them and doula for them.

Comfort Seminar - Babies by the Sea Boutique in Cardiff.
We had a great group for "Keys to Comfort for Mama and Baby".  My favorite part was sharing about the ministry and comfort of song. Yes, we sang.You should have been there. It was a beautiful rendition of “Row, row, row, your boat gently down the stream, life is but a dream” - in round! I have to say, we are not ready to take it on road, but we did release some serious endorphins and comfort joy.

TELL ME -  In an upcoming blog I’ll share about special people who have brought the power of comfort into their life and others. Tell us how you are using the power of comfort in your own life and how you are bringing comfort to others.  Email: info@comfortsilkie.com

Hope to hear from you soon,

July 20, 2010

Jeanelle at Babies by the Sea Boutique

Don't Miss July 25th.
Key Comforts for Pregnancy, Birth and Baby
Join Jeanelle Troncone at Babies by the Sea Boutique in Cardiff by the Sea, CA.
Sunday, July 25th, 2:00-3:00pm

Get away for an hour of soothing comfort tips that will unlock your inner strengths.
Something for everyone who wants to learn essential comfort keys to celebrating life.

Key Topics:
  • How we are wired for comfort response
  • How to tap into the energizing power of comfort
  • Easy everyday tips to loving your body, calming your mind, soothing your soul, and quieting your emotions
  • Learn techniques you need for pregnancy, birth, and baby
2007 San Elijo Ave, Cardiff, CA 92007

Complimentary Class
Please call 760-230-4272 to reserve your space.
Please share this event with friends: http://bit.ly/bbscomfortkeys

Instructor: Jeanelle Troncone is a mother of six who began her comfort research in 1987 by creating soothing products for babies. She is a Comfort Therapist, Doula, Childbirth and Early Parenthood Educator. She is know as the "Mother of Comfort" because she patented the first Security Blanket and first Swaddler designed for baby comfort response. Jeanelle co-entrepreneurs the Comfort Silkie Company with her husband Greg. Their products have been featured on Good Morning America and in the New York Times.

June 9, 2010

Love Notes to Comfort Silkie

We love hearing from our customers! Here's some recent kind words:
New! Comfort Silkie Pillow: "My son loved his original comfort silkie so much I bought him the Comfort Silkie Pillow. He loves it so much and wants to hold it all the time. The pillow is so soft and very comfortable - a must have!" - J. Shea

Original Comfort Silkie Bonding Security Blanket: This little blanket is wonderful. My son loves it! He goes to sleep so easily (8 months old now) and I think that it's in part due to this blanket. He rubs it all over his face, sucks on it, plays little peek-a-boo games with it, and even sleeps with it. Since he was a tiny baby I have felt very comfortable leaving him to sleep with his blanket because it is small enough and light enough weight. I'm so happy with the Comfort Silkie that I'm ordering a second one for Toby and a couple to give as gifts. - G. Payzant

All Silkie Snuggley Blankets: "The Silkie was a gift and I did not think I would use it, but then began sleep training. My son, who is 11 months now, searches the house for his Comfort Silkie "lovie" before napping or going to sleep at night. He loves it, much to my surprise. It is the only thing he has an attachment to. He chews on it while falling asleep and it is perfect to cover him with since he doesn't like blankets of any sort. I am ordering an identical one as a back up. He is a boy's boy and this Comfort Silkie is standing up to the challenge and staying intact. Highly recommend." - V. Kenney

Original Comfort Silkie Bonding Security Blanket: "My 3 nieces have the Comfort Silkie Security Blankets and still sleep with them (ages 8, 6, 4) and my twin girls received them when they were born. They sleep with them (they are 4 now!) and play with them all the time. They wrap up THEIR babydolls in them! The Comfort Silkies are very durable and are just now starting to fray on the edges. They are the perfect size to take anywhere. I would highly recommend this product. Great baby gift!" - R. Kippley

Original Comfort Silkie Bonding Security Blanket: "I have a 6 year old son and a 2 year old daughter. I received a Comfort Silkie for my son before he was born. He now has 6 of them & he is 6! Still sleeps with his. My daughter also has two of them. They are a MUST at our house! As babies they never went anywhere without their "pacy & silkie." Wonderful product!" - M. Bell

Labor Effleurage Massage Circle: "This product was a life savor during my whole labor. I had a natural birth and I used the Comfort Silkie massage circle through each contraction. It made me relax and the silkie satin felt so good moving across my belly. I tell all my friends about this blanket because it truly is the best. You can use the massage circle the whole time while you are pregnant, during labor and afterwards for regular massage. A wonderful and magical product. Thank you for making my labor a wonderful and enjoyable one I will never forget." - M. White

Cozy Fur Blankets: "I manage Bellini Dallas and Comfort Silkies have been my go-to lovies and blankets. My four grandchildren share my love for satin/silkie feels, and each one of us sleep on your satin pillowcases, mini and regular. My only grand daughter is almost 15 and entering highschool at a prestigious girls' school in Dallas. She goes to sleepovers alot, and obviously, takes her blue and while Creme Baby Fur Big Baby blanket with her that I gave her last year. Today, a classmate and her mother came in to buy a baby gift for a former teacher and specifically asked for "the blanket Ali had when she spent the night- the softest blanket she had ever touched." This was for a baby gift, but her mother sensed her own 14 year old daughter wanted one too-hence we sold two. Just had to let you know how special these blankets are, even to highschoolers. I have a feeling we will sell more to these girls-so much for "just babies". Thanks for letting me share this special story." A. Corson

Have a comment or story about a Comfort Silkie product? We'd love to hear from you! Comment here, on our Facebook page or email us at info@comfortsilkie.com

April 30, 2010

Comfort Silkie Mother's Day Specials

Comfort Silkie is Celebrating Motherhood
through the Month of May


Be celebrated! Print out your Favorites and Queen for the Day wishes, not just for Mother’s Day but everyday. It is important for your children to see you not only as Mother, but as a person with needs, feelings, and favorites. If you have children that love their Comfort Silkies, they would probably be thrilled for you to have your very own Mama Silkie Throw or pillow cover. Maybe Dad can help with this - because as they know, the best gift is comfort!

We will have a special for Mom's Every Monday in May!
Check your emails or follow us online on facebook or twitter for more Monday Mom Specials.

Monday May 3rd: 20% Off all Gifts for Mom
Discount code: mom3 (Items must be from Gifts for Mom page)

A couple of my favorite Mama quotes:

“Mothers’ hold their children’s hands for a while, their hearts forever.”

“Once upon a time, someone wiped away a tear, held me close and loved me, thank you mother dear."


Helpful Tips for Distracted Dads and Clueless Kids
As mother of six, that is known as “The Mother of Comfort” I want to tell you how to put the Oooh … Aahh, into your Mothers Day. You deserve to be appreciated.

Here are some tools to help dads and kids put together a wonderful day just for you.
Print out and post these Mother's Day Tip Sheets and expect the best Mother’s Day ever.

1. Mother’s Favorites:
Mother's Day is reported to be the second biggest gift giving day. Help them choose something special just for you by filling out a list of your favorite things. When you share your favorite flowers, colors, books, etc, it teaches children of all ages that mother is a unique individual with special tastes. It helps them learn that gifts should be chosen with the recipient in mind.

2. Queen for a Day Wish List:
You may love Mother's Day surprises, however don’t be afraid to share your expectations or ideas. Let them know how they can make you feel like Queen for a Day on Mother's Day. Print out Queen for a Day and give them some suggestions. Remember husbands and kids can’t read your mind and may be oblivious to the obvious.
Click here for Queen for a Day Wish List

3. Give Mom a Day Off:
Sometimes the best gift is a little rest. Print out Mom’s Day Off and make a list of the tasks you usually do and have them sign up to help. They will appreciate it more the next time they see you doing it. No fair letting things pile up for the day after Mother’s Day. The job will probably not be done the way you would do it, but smile and say “marvelous”! You may want to use this list once a month to teach a task or use it on a catch-up-day.
Click here for Mom's Day Off List 

4. Keep the Magic in Mother’s Day:
Mother’s Day is the busiest day of the year for restaurants. It can take the magic out of Mother’s Day waiting with hungry, fussy children. If you would like to celebrate at a favorite restaurant mention it in time for reservations. Other ideas, a picnic lunch with sandwiches ordered to go or a special dessert place.

5. Put the Oooh … Aahh in Mother’s Day - Everday:
In the busy life of a mom it is difficult to find time to connect the mind, body, and soul. Go to http://www.comfortsilkie.com/ and see gift ideas that bring luxurious comfort to everyday. Special discounts through May. Celebrate yourself and enjoy!

March 23, 2010

Springtime Comforts

The comforts of Spring; warm sunshine, snow melting, flowers budding, birds chirping - the world is awaking. There is comfort in the ongoing cycle of seasons. Each season signals its time of year and brings with it things we love and find similar. The comfort and wonder in the thought that someone greater than ourself has organized this wonderful symphony and cycle of life.

Embrace Spring and consider these life comfort moments:
This is the season for a dream that has laid dormant to bud forth. As a child I remember the joy of seeing the first purple crocus bursting forth from the snow to announce Spring. I think this season, that is so full of new beginnings, is meant to remind us to dream and hope for blessings yet to come. Even if it has been a long, stormy winter; Spring is on its way. 

So dare to write down one dream this Spring and how you might make your dream a reality in 2010.

May dreams and joy spring forth in your life.
May you be the kindness that awakens hope in others.

Comfort and blessings to you,

February 24, 2010

Yummy Cookies to Share the Love

Yes, in my dreams I was going to be blogging all February about Love and Cardiac Wellness.
My reality turned out a little different. All you moms know what I mean.

So here we are the last week in February and I hope you have had a month full of love and wellness.
I still have a few days to write my favorite Yummy Cookie Recipe which I make for Valentine Day. You can make these cookies in any shape for any holiday. Are the cookies good for your heart ??? - Not sure,  but I know this -  they are very yummy and comforting. You can use this recipe and cut the shape of three leaf clover and frost green for St. Patrick's Day.

I always like to make extra of everything and have some to share. It is so rare today to receive a gift of homemade cookies. So the love thing ... think of someone who might need to be loved and give some sweetness. The ingredients may have sugar and butter but if you give them with love it cancels calories and fats. Well, ok maybe not, but giving is definitely good for the heart. "We are given two hands. One to receive with and one to give with"
Giving is good for the heart!
Be blessed until the next blog.
-Jeanelle

Yummy Cookies

Bake at 325 for 20 minutes or until edges brown slightly
2 3/4  cup flour
1/4 cup cornstarch
1/2 tsp. baking powder
1/4 tsp. salt
 - Combine in bowl and set aside

1 cup butter (2 sticks)
3/4 cup powdered sugar
2 tsp. vanilla
 - Combine in medium bowl and with electric mixer beat until smooth and creamy
 - On low speed mix in ingredients from first bowl until large lump

Form smooth ball and roll out with floured rolling pin to 1/4 inch thick
Cut with cookie cutter and lift to cookie sheet lined with parchment paper or sprayed

Frosting:
1 1/2 cup powdered sugar
1/2 tsp. vanilla
5-6 tsp milk
 - Add drops of color
 - Beat together to form thick glaze

Enjoy!

February 3, 2010

February Heartful Thanks

February, the month we celebrate the magic of the heart.
I will be blogging about Valentines Day, Love, and Cardiac Health.

I have been studying how stress affects our health and our hearts. And I have to tell you, it can make you a little stressed knowing how much our lifestyles influence our well being. I remind myself not to become paranoid when I am researching women’s health issues like heart health and breast cancer.

However, toda
y after a morning cup of coffee my heart did a little racing. It probably has every morning, but today I noticed it. I found myself waiting apprehensively for my ticker to find its rightful rhythm. Yes, my little power friend, beating away faithfully 100,800 times a day; pumping the life giving nourishment throughout my body. I usually take its’ work for granted, but today I am grateful, appreciative, for the amazing job my heart does for me. And I agreed to take good care of myself and to help it keep ticking for a few more decades.

So with heartfelt thanks, take a deep breath with me, eat your veggies, and remember “A merry heart is like good medicine.” To see more Heart Comfort Facts.



January 18, 2010

The Comfort of New Beginnings

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

Yes, the comfort of new beginnings. I completely missed a Christmas blog. I had so much to share but life has been a little overwhelming. I can’t wait until next year to share with you all my Christmas Comforts. The reality is we are already well into January, oh yes, reality . . . so let’s focus on the surprises and the blessings of the New Year.

We shared with many of you that we had lost our lease on the building we had been in for 12 years. The news couldn’t have come at a worst time with the fragile economy and our retailers struggling. The future for Comfort Silkie was uncertain and we were looking for the Plan. (Jeremiah 29:11). We shared that uncertainty with you and . . .you were wonderful! You sent in your heartfelt and lovely responses. It truly felt like Comfort Silkie family. It made me feel like I wanted to have a Comfort Silkie family picnic and just have everyone get together. We could express our gratefulness to you and you could share your stories.

Oh the sweet comfort of new beginnings.

We probably never would have moved and now we have. It was a huge job and just this week we have phone lines and internet. Yeah! Our shipping opened last week and we are settling in and enjoying the new place. I have to tell you though, it was a nail biter right to the last minute. We had to be out of our original building December 31st. We were uncertain whether we could financially make the move until December 22. On December 23 we had to execute the lease and have the keys to the new warehouse in one day. The brokers for the building were leaving for the Holidays and would not be back until January 4th. Five minutes before they closed for Christmas we completed the lease and received the keys.

Then came the move. Exhausting, overwhelming, grueling, tearful, are a few words to describe the last couple of weeks. It was one of those times where you just put one foot in front of the other and keep going because so much has to be done. But in the midst of those emotions, that came because of the enormity of the job, was also the wonderful joy of knowing that Comfort Silkie could continue to bring comfort. So many of you had expressed how much our products meant to you and how much you wanted us to continue. You cheered us on with your words and your Christmas orders. A zillion thank yous!

Comfort Wisdom: The New Year stretches out before us with its joys and disappointments. Treasure the moments and enjoy the ride.

A few years back our family was going to Magic Mountain Amusement Park. The kids were thrilled and especially looking forward to the wet and wild rapids ride. As for me, as soon as we got there my mother instinct OCD “protect your children from all things wet and cold” kicked into high gear. I began planning at what time we should go on this ride. Timing was critical because if they all got wet too early or late I would be walking around with wet kids all day. I had to time the ride for sufficient warmth and drying time. Of course they probably wouldn’t minded slogging around but I knew they would have their death of cold. So, when the sun was at its best I began to yell . . . "it is time, it is time, get in line, get in line ... now!" I had everyone take off their socks so I could keep them dry. At least they would have dry socks in their wet shoes. I also, being the ever prepared mom, brought out the plastic trash bags I brought to cover up with. This brought immediate groans and screams of “dorky”. I personally thought it was a great idea and was sure every other mother in line was admiring my preparedness.

As we waited in line the kids and Greg were ecstatic. Yes, the wetter the better. Me, I was looking at the sopping wet people come off the ride and worrying about all the water that was already in the circular, bucket thing we were climbing into. The ride begins, the kids are screaming with joy. Greg is laughing. Me, I am busy trying to keep the trash bags over myself and our youngest and anyone else who will let me. The kids are drenched and loving it. I am holding on for dear life as they try to direct the plummeting barrel into every rapid and waterfall.

Suddenly, the ride slows and comes to a halt. We all pile out of the bucket, the kids are thrilled and jumping up and down and begging to go again. I am looking at them in their complete abandonment and joy. And it strikes me - I completely missed the ride.

I was so busy trying to stay dry and control the ride I completely missed the fun of it. I gathered myself up, ditched the plastic bags (well ok, I kept one to sit on) and let go; screamed, raised my arms, leaned into to the splash, and had a great time getting wet.

Comfort Lesson: I had the opportunity to go on this amusement ride again and enjoy the moment. But in real life, - if I miss the moment, it will be gone.

Comfort Wisdom: We’ll only go around once. Expect to get wet, make yourself comfortable with the uncomfortable, and … enjoy the ride.

From the Mother of Comfort: When life seems scary, uncomfortable, and unpredictable, don’t hold on too tight and miss the ride. Enjoy the moment.
HAPPY NEW YEAR,



The best of New Beginnings -
my new grandbaby Laylie.

November 20, 2009

Troncone Thanksgiving Traditions

I love Thanksgiving.

Gathering my family and enjoying a beautiful meal together makes me crazy grateful. I usually can’t contain myself so I break into song. My kids start to groan but they know I won’t stop until they join in. As a mom, I try to instill in them thankful hearts. Gratefulness is learned, not just in response to receiving, but a celebration of life. It is easy to become burdened with the day to day and forget to savor, yes savor, life’s moments.


Here are some of Troncone Thanksgiving traditions:

Five Kernels of Corn: When the table is set for the Thanksgiving meal every plate has 5 kernels of corn. They represent the Pilgrims struggle the year before the plenty and celebration of Thanksgiving. According to tradition, the Pilgrims suffered through a two year famine with a food ration of five kernels per day. When we compare the meal about to be served to the five kernels we can’t help but be thankful for our blessings.


Thankful Memories:
Over the years I have had a Thanksgiving book that we pass and note our gratefulness. We pass the book, even writing for the small ones and letting them scribble their names. It is fun to look back and see, from old to young, the comments they made.


The Acorn Theory: An oak tree produces many acorns and those acorns produce more oak trees. At our family Thanksgiving it is tradition to pass the acorn and tell what each individual is thankful for. We also say one thing we are praying and hoping for this next year. Sharing each others joys and carrying each others burdens – it's what makes families strong.


For Stuffing Lovers: Yes, that is me. You must try this. When preparing your stuffing for the turkey: add chopped walnuts, apple bits, and golden raisins to the bread crumb recipe. Oh, so good!


Pumpkins Bars:
I always make this yummy dessert during Thanksgiving. Chopped walnuts are a nice topping to the cream cheese frosting. You can double this recipe or make multiple batches and do up plates to bring to neighbors and friends. See recipe below.


Pumpkin Bars Recipe: Oven 350
2 cups flour
2 tsp. baking powder
1/2 tsp. salt
2 tsp. cinna
mon
1 tsp. baking soda
2 cups sugar
1 cup oil
4 eggs,
beaten slightly
2 cups pumpkin

Combine in bowl in order given. Beat well. Spread on greased deep cookie sheet or 9x11 baking dish. Bake for 25 minutes. Cool. Frost with cream cheese frosting.
Sprinkle with chopped walnuts.

Cream Cheese Frosting:

2 packages (3 oz.) cream cheese, softened
1 Tbsp. but
ter, softened
1 tsp. vanilla
1 3/4 cups powered sugar, sifted

Mix in bowl and beat with electric mixer. If nec
essary, add milk to make of spreading consistency.

Happy Thanksgiving,




"The Mother of Comfort"

November 17, 2009

March of Dimes Premature Baby Awareness Day

November is Prematurity Awareness month and we wanted to share how Comfort Silkie makes a difference for preemies in the NICU. As a Comfort Therapist and founder of Comfort Silkie company I design products and education that empower parents to soothe their babies in the NICU. For the past two decades, bringing comfort to precious preemies and their parents has been our mission. The NICU can be an intimidating and heart rendering environment. Simple comfort techniques make life-long emotional markers for both baby and parents. Comfort Silkie’s Original patented Security Blanket is recommended by Neonatologists and NICU Nurses around the country to enhance bonding and create a scent connection. This small comfort blanket is designed with special features that soothe: The cuddly flannel feels like soft skin and the silkie satin feels like the fluid within the womb. The small, light weight size is easy to work with and easily absorbs parent’s unique comfort scent. The Comfort Silkie encourages normal nurturing interaction and help parents feels connected and close to baby. The Comfort Silkie encourages self comfort behaviors that will continue with baby’s ongoing care and development.

Additional Preemie recommended products: The Silkie Nest: Provides soft boundaries and silkie comfort touch. Infant Swaddler: Designed to comfort “womb wrap” baby: preemie and regular size. Comfort Message Isolette/Blanket Cover: Write your love message on the satin side and use to cover isolate. When baby leaves the NICU it can be used as a blanket and memory item.


Comforting Your Precious Preemie:
Click here for Comfort Tips for Preemie Babies and Their Parents.


- The Mother of Comfort



www.comfortsilkie.com

"I bring high risk babies into this world, but I am glad to know that we have such a valuable partner in Comfort Silkie." Dr D. Adair, Director of Maternal Fetal Medicine


"Nothing can replace a parent’s love and gentle embrace, but Comfort Silkie is the next best thing. I am a NICU nurse, babies need comforting and soothing touch especially under stress, such as prematurity or other life threatening medical problems. Comfort is a powerful medical treatment." P. Ferenbacher RN

"My baby was born at 25 weeks gestation. I took a Comfort Silkie to her while she was in the NICU for 4.5 months. It was so soft and soothing for her to lay on and even though she couldn’t be home with us she had her mommy’s scent with her. I love your products!" C.K.


“I am Neonatal RN, your Comfort Silkie’s are the perfect thing for our tiny babies.” A. Qick RN


The Comfort Silkie:

Winner of the JPMA Award and National Parenting Center of Approval
Supporting and addressing psychosocial needs within the NICU environment.


Comfort Silkie has been a part of the healing environment of many NICUs across the country and Foundations that support Preemie Care. Including: Graham's Foundation, Jim Moro Foundation, The Bearman, Rook, and Ganahl Family Foundations, Loma Linda University, Children’s Hospitals, Rockford Memorial, and St. Joseph Hospital.


Bringing Comfort and Joy.

Especially at Christmas, we have NICU families that purchase a Comfort Silkie for every baby in their NICU. Find out how you can be apart of bringing Comfort Silkie to your local NICU or support a Foundation working with preemies by emailing me at jeanelle@comfortsilkie.com or call 800.266.2229.

November 10, 2009

Comfort Silkie & March of Dimes Celebration of Babies

Award Recipient Donna Holloran & Jeanelle Troncone

Comfort Silkie was a part of the March of Dimes Celebration of Babies at the Four Seasons Hotel in Beverly Hills. I had the joy of seeing my friend Donna Holloran of Baby Group receive the prestigious March of Dimes Community Award. It was a star studded event recognizing the need to join the fight for preemies. Through the years Comfort Silkie has been a part of bringing comfort to many tiny lives and their parents. So it was a privilege to have Comfort Silkie be part of the Celebration of Babies Luxury Boutique.

Halle Berry, Hank Azaria, and Nicole Richie and other celebrity parents attended the event to champion the health of babies during Prematurity Awareness Month. Some of our favorite celebrity families that have had premature babies have personally seen the difference that Comfort Silkie can make. The Comfort Silkie Security Blanket is used in Neonatal Intensive Care Units across the country helping parents bond and make a scent connection with their precious preemie.

Even in this difficult economic time babies are born premature and their parents need our continued support and comfort. Comfort Silkie is dedicated to this mission – Find out how you can be apart of bringing Comfort Silkie to your local NICU or support a Foundation working with preemies by emailing me at Jeanelle@comfortsilkie.com. We'll be sharing more about this event and our comfort mission throughout the month of November. Comfort Silkie - Supporting Healthy Mamas & Healthy Babies

October 28, 2009

Amazing Internet Mommies

What a fun evening at the posh Fairmont Hotel with Kimberley Blaine who is the famed Go-To Mom of http://www.thegotomom.tv/. Lisa and I were there to celebrate her newly released book, “The Internet Mommy.” We ate, laughed, and basked in the wonderfulness of online Moms. Kimberley’s Internet Mommy book is an enjoyable, inspirational, and educational read. In fact, it inspired me to begin seriously blogging - immediately. Ok, as immediately as it gets when your life is as crazy as mine, the event was last Thursday. So here I am blogging away at Comfort Silkie in the hopes of becoming as cool as the amazing moms I met that night. Read “The Internet Mommy” and you will be inspired too.

Kimberley’s book tells their stories of “how social networks influence the way moms make money, view life, find friends, and raise kids.” I will share more about these ladies who work and play online as we are now BFFs. (I hope they remember who I am....as there was an open bar).


Photos:
1. Lisa, Kim (
kimtracyprince.com), Lori (wellconnectedmom.com) Kimberley (thegotomom.com), Megan (twittermoms.com) and Me (comfortsilkie.com)
2. Kimberley, Me & Lisa.
3. Kimberley reading from her book.
4. Megan from
TwitterMoms.com

The Internet Mommy is $12.95 and can be found at amazon.com.
About the Author Kimberley Clayton Blaine is a licensed child therapist, and national parenting expert who specializes in working with children ages newborn to six years old. Blaine is the founder of the Web show at www.TheGoToMom.TV
and is the executive producer of the newly released mom blogger web series called www.AByteOutofLife.com. She also teaches Early Childhood Brain Development UCLA Extension Education Department. She is currently the Social Marketing Director for a Los Angeles-based Early Childhood Mental Health Campaign funded by the US Dept. of Health and Human Services.

September 25, 2009

Colby's Comfort Silkie Story


My name is Tyler and I am a 27 year old mother of a 18 month old little boy named Colby! I first have to say that I have a 13 year old brother who was given a Comfort Silkie when he was a newborn by a friend of my moms. When my son was born, my brother passed on his Silkie to Colby and since that one is very much worn out, Colby has his own now too!

I have to share with you Colby's story:
In late January 2008 Colby (then 9 months old) suddenly started having trouble breathing- within 24 hours of my husband and I bringing him to the doctor, his throat had closed completely and he was rushed to Childrens Hospital of Minneapolis where he was put on a ventilator. During that time, through surgeries and endless tests, there was little that my husband or I could do to try and provide him with comfort. Throughout the entire time he had his Comfort Silkie by his side. Since being released he is noticably more attached to his Comfort Silkie blanket! I have to wash it a few times a week because he wants to bring it EVERYWHERE and loves to introduce everyone to his silkie- even the dogs. Ick!

Anyways, Colby is fully recovered now and as I was looking back today at the photos of that time in the hospital- his silkie kept catching my eye and I truly believe that having it by his side really did help him to heal. Thank you for bringing comfort into the lives of people who really need it!!

Love, Tyler